Ultimately both men and women are sexualized (that is, designed in ways that are idealized or exaggerated while drawing attention to and/or emphasizing select sex characteristics along with non-body factors like status). A noticeable amount of major man characters are in either in a fit physical form or at least have attractive faces. You can bring up a character like Otacon from Metal Gear and I'll point out that he's depicted as a spaz who pisses himself, and being an obvious stand-in for otaku isn't an ideal man like Solid Snake. Saying that women aren't attracted to beefcakes like Kratos can be countered by pointing out that plenty of major men aren't designed that way while still overall having attractive designs (like how plenty of major women don't have comically huge tits and/or asses, or even dress that inappropriately when compared with both other men in their games and women in our world). It can also be countered that men at large don't really lean towards a stick with tits look and assorted attractive woman characters could be called female power fantasies if fit and/or powerful men are male power fantasies.