would be nice if a single breedee could feel the love I I've felt for each of them for me. No wonder I have trust issues when they all say they want loyalty and the ability to speak about anything, only to be disloyal and to not speak openly and truthfully. The last case is actually insane. She broke it off because when she called and talked with me about something that happened at work, a patient had beaten another and almost killed him, I told her that I didn't want her to be in a job that's that dangerous and that that man should be moved elsewhere. She said she felt like I knew better than her at her job. That single comment was enough to break it all off. 2 months talk of making snabies, being sweet with each other trashed because of the feminist idea that men protecting women is wrong, and her misinterpreting my concern as belittling. No loyalty, and no message from her explaining this before days later, instead of taking it up in conversation when it happened.