Tell her you have a kink for girls wearing diapers and you think it would be fun to try together. Don't go over board. Ease into it with goodnites and like a movie at home. That what my wife and I did.

Step 1. When she is on her period and stuff, try to convert her away from pads and tampons. And instead suggest that she uses goodnites instead. Step 2. After some months of this. Try to suggest to her, to wear them all of the time day and night even if it isn't that time of the month. Step 3. After some months of this, try to convince her to throw away all of her underwears as she is no longer using them. Step 4. After some months of this. Try to suggest her using her goodnites for what are made for. Step 5. After some months of this. Try to convince her to switch out her goodnites to propper big abdl types of girly plastic baked diapers. Step 6. After some months of this. Slowly buy her more and more abdl stuff, like a chaning table. Bottles, pacifiers, more and more babyish clothes. And start to bottle feed her with warm milk and baby formula. Step 7. After about 1 & A ½ A Year of this. Tell her that this is your kink and has always been so. And that seeing her like this makes you extremly happy.

>>35570 This is psychotic, and coomerbrained. Assuming that she's actually a real person, this would fail by step 2, if not step 1. Anybody that didn't immediately figure out that something was off would be offended by the gaslighting. >>35566 This, OP. Be a goddamn adult and have communication.

>>35572 100% right. I achieved the "Step 2" and this is way enough already. Not forcing it or anything, diapers are just great for periods and with time, it has becoming something comforting to wear regularly at night. But yeah, OP, just tell her about your kink, it's not like hiding it will do any good and at least you'll feel liberated.

I never said that you had to follow all 7 steps. One can just stop on step 1.

>>35566 This seems like a reasonable way to do it. How into it is your gf now? Does she just do stuff occasionally to please you or is she actually into it? >>35585 Can you share in detail how you went about it and sort of how things progressed? >>35570 Step 1 isn't bad and while I do want to have step 4 and 5 and 6 in effect this approach doesn't seem like a good way to make that happen.

>>35589 We've been together over ten years. She likes doing it every now and then. As we've gotten older and had kids it's just different than when we were in our early 20's. I know the aspects she likes of it so I play into that. It's all about compromise and communicating.

>>35589 First, we've been together for 8 years, time does help a lot. I told her about ABDL almost 2 days after we started dating, but on a "cute" side (need of cuddles, wears diaper to feel vulnerable etc.) After 2 years, i started wearing regularly, showing her it was nothing and just REALLY comfy underwear. No problem for her as long as it was not every day. Until last year she had trouble with her periods, but it got fixed. I suggested her the Tena panties "way better than period pad". And finally a few month ago, she asked to wear diapers (real ones, with tapes) during her periods. This was mostly motivated by the fact i told her we could have sex even during periods, without spilling blood everywhere if she wore one and i just had to pull it to the side. So well... comfort, really hard erection, a bit of bdsm and submission with the diaper, pacifier gag and handcuffs. I suppose the hardest part was to show diapers were both usefull and could match the submission fantasies she had (like a huge majority of people i guess) Funny thing is now, when she feels a bit sad or tired, she will wear one without telling me, like its reassuring. I won't hope for more, it's already great that way.

>>35558 After letting her know that you have an interest and gauging her reaction, maybe involve some sort of foreplay in diapering her and making her listen to hypnosis themed around regression and or wetting/messing (If she's consenting, of course). Say that she listens for an hour and give her ten minutes with a massager against her diaper. Leading others into compulsive regression is pretty carrot and stick, but you should absolutely account for whatever she's interested in as well. Also, women have a natural desire for submission, and you can play around with that too if she's not too much trouble.