>>49050 For sure, give me a ballpark area and I'll figure out how much trouble it will be. I drive around for work a lot, but the further it is from my normal routes the longer it'll be until I'm around that area. Give me like a tri-city area or something.

>>49254 Because of faggots like you. Every time some right leaning thing in any group appears you faggots feel the need to invade for some reason, as a result nothing more develops because you lot like ruining things you dont like. You jackoffs literally have reddit and all the other diaper forums to post on, so why do you feel the need to come here to this "small abdl board" as you put it and attempt to shove your tired rhetoric around. Does this place scare you? Does it have something you want? How about instead of coming here and demanding everything change to suit your gay ass sensibilities you take your retarded ass and go literally anywhere else.

>>49263 You're 100% right bro, but calm down. This is just how it is and why a lot of us older ABDLs don't engage IRL, we were freaked out by the lefties long ago. Ask yourself who can openly run ABDL groups and events? Folks with nothing to lose professionally or socially. Those of us with respectable friends and colleagues and who have a fetish but aren't willing to engage in orgies quickly run from the balding, blue-haired trans-woman that's too forward and has a weird lisp at the munch. We can't run our own normal groups because the lefties will join just to expose us and, unlike them, we enjoy our privacy and don't want to mix a childhood hang-up with our corporate career. So we pay through the nose for private nurseries, very carefully vet a few friends, or just don't engage. it's the sane ABDL way.

>>49269 You remind me of a group I met in LA that was small but had strict rules against troons and furries.

>>49243 you're not really making any sense, you didn't address what i actually said and instead strawmanned something anon didn't actually say either. maybe a better way to put it is emotional maturity and regulation. these groups don't tend to have very emotionally mature people in them, and it makes sense because they are young and still learning about the world. so they tend to think in black and white terms, all or nothing, good and bad, and can't appreciate nuance or diversity of opinion without equating them to BAD BECAUSE I DONT AGREE WITH THEM. also, as an aside to your ridiculous point about ABDL diapers only existing because of gay men, you realize gay men can be right wing? you realize people like peter thiel and milo yahnahpollis exist?

>>49270 That's cool that there is one. Look, I don't even mind sissies, if getting put in a dress and paddled while wearing a diaper gets you off, more power too you. I don't mind you wearing a dress - but don't expect me to act like you're actually female, and don't expect dudes (or women) to be into that. Like, people will play along if you're otherwise a cool guy cause, hell, we've all got our kinks, but don't make the mistake of thinking you're anything but a man in a dress.

>>49277 >>49277 >milo yahnahpollis Milo was faking the gay right-winger bit, https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/politics-news/milo-yiannopoulos-career-new-ventures-1236059885/` >>49277 >maybe a better way to put it is emotional maturity and regulation. these groups don't tend to have very emotionally mature people in them, and it makes sense because they are young and still learning about the world. so they tend to think in black and white terms, all or nothing, good and bad, and can't appreciate nuance or diversity of opinion without equating them to BAD BECAUSE I DONT AGREE WITH THEM. > "Just be emotionally mature bro, the right is literally trying to eradicate trans and gay people, taking away all of their healthcare and employment options, just accept my political opinion, don't just tell me to get the fuck out."

>>49289 >more strawmanning out of curiosity, do you think people that have exclusive paraphilias (meaning, they can ONLY cum by seeing or thinking about, let's say diapers) are a minority group that deserves the same rights, respect, and dignity as gay and trans people? or is it """not the same thing"""?

>>49290 >out of curiosity, do you think people that have exclusive paraphilias (meaning, they can ONLY cum by seeing or thinking about, let's say diapers) are a minority group that deserves the same rights, respect, and dignity as gay and trans people? or is it """not the same thing"""? > You'll just say I'm strawmanning, because you don't like the answer, but: You don't get to pick your kinks and I actually agree with you on this point. I'm aware of the "your fetish isn't the same as me being LGBTQIA" argument. It's unfair to not allow the comparison. You take the same risks with kink at being outed as any of the LGBTQIA, being extended the same protections would only make you a protected class, otherwise what exactly would change if your fetish was treated the same as LGBTQIA? Work provided changing tables? High-chairs in the breakroom? Stuffies attending the wedding? Being able to tell people on the street you pooped your diaper? Tell your coworkers all about your latest trip to the mall with Mommy/Daddy?

>>49277 There's a type contrarian gay man who misses when the scene was underground/dislikes the pride movement that's overrepresented from the norm in a lot of right wing circles, one that comes to mind is David Starkey. Not even getting into shit like the trannywaffen.

>>49270 >furries. That sounds like a hilarious throwback. Yiff in hell sentiments were very 2000s

>>49290 >people that have exclusive paraphilias (meaning, they can ONLY cum by seeing or thinking about, let's say diapers) are a minority group that deserves the same rights, respect, and dignity as gay and trans people? Unironically yes, but the problem was that we gave heterosexuals special rights with marriage in the first place. The proper answer is to just not enshrine any particular sexuality or fetish in the law at all

>>49296 From what I was told it was to avoid drama within the group as much as possible. Pretty chill group outside of the stricter mommy/daddy rule enforcement which I couldn't get into.

>>49300 >Pretty chill group outside of the stricter mommy/daddy rule enforcement which I couldn't get into. Actually kind of curious about that rule now, actually. Presumably the group wasn't actually going to do background checks to verify if you were a furry (identity and subculture based stuff is always a pretty arbitrary area for stuff like that), but I'm kind of curious about how they enforced caretaker stuff. Was there like a restriction of titles or displays of affection or something?

>>49304 Pretty much a 24/7 enforcement of who is a Baby and who is a Caretaker ie if you're part of the Baby group even in a normal setting youre expected to always listen to the Caretakers which to me is a bit overkill.

>>49258 I'm not whoever you've been responding to. Maybe you should stop shoving politics into every part of your life. You might find some happiness

>>49310 Right, I can see how that would be overbearing

Has a single person met up from this thread yet? I understand that we're a very slow board on a very slow website, but still, 3 years, 300 posts, doesn't appear to be anything... The political derailing isn't helping things either

>>49320 Nope. I've offered twice to meet folks in So Cal that seemed normal enough and they never follow up. Probably just scared. I've always had okay luck with individual meet-ups though. It was the group ones that were weird. It gets harder as you're older since everyone's busy, but just finding two or three ABDLs to play some diapered multi-player video games with would be fun. I have a couple of ABDL buddies but they don't know each other well and there's never been a time to get all three of us together. It'd just be cool to have 3 or 4 together as I think it'd make diapers more casual with everyone wearing.

>>49321 I'm sure it's a lot easier over where you're at. I'm in bumfuck nowhere southern USA and I've met a grand total of one person irl who was into it (and even that felt like winning the lottery) and I blew it by being an asshole. I've tried discord servers, fetlife, everything but I just can't find people I click with unfortunately enough. I don't know if it's just a location thing or if finding other people into this who I vibe with is just a nigh impossibility given that a lot of people into this fetish are so severely autistic they can barely talk to people without making things incredibly awkward.

>>49260 Monterey Park/East LA region

>>49323 I've got another friend around there actually. I know there's a few of us down there. That's not awful, as long as it's east of LA. We should figure a way to take this private and pick somewhere public to meet. Shoot me an e-mail or suggest something else: abdlthrowaway1@proton.me

>>49322 Can confirm that things are easier on the west coast. Was actually able to find two ABDL groups that had organized in my area, which was not too surprising since it was a metropolitan area, but I am very much sure that that is not common elsewhere.

>>49326 Maybe someday I'll get to leave this barren wasteland. Probably not. I don't even feel like I'd need someone IRL, just someone to talk to about this fetish, maybe exchange pics, be lewd online would suffice. I had this for a month, but I was ghosted, and I only met him before we knew we were both into diapers so it was purely a coincidence.

>>49327 It's never as good as you build it up in your mind to be anyway. No one can perfectly fulfill fantasies. It's fun hanging out in diapers with peeps, but never quite how you expect, it's not the online wish fulfillment.

>>49328 For sure, to an extent, but the fact that I was so close to having exactly what I wanted (and previously having something I thought was a suitable substitute) and I won't have that opportunity again for years at minimum, never at maximum, just eats up at me worse than never having it at all, I think.

>>49329 Yeah, I can see how that could eat at you. That pangs have dulled with age and with the ability to meet up with people, but I remember how it felt. Wishing you luck anon, either in fulfilling that desire or finally coming to terms with it.

>>49330 I appreciate it. Hopefully my venting didn't kill the thread mood

>>49331 If anything, you set things back on course with the subject matter of this thread, so 👍

25, Vancouver Island, Victoria BC regions Think it’d be neat to just be meet a fellow DL and just hang for like, a stroll, use our diapers during said stroll (either 1 or 2, or both) and be chill and maybe some mild teasing concerning our diapers being used.

anyone from Portland oregon? 28 male here

>>49333 male btw, forgot to add that.

35 mtf/andro PNW. mommy type. not just into the lewd stuff. into fems.

31m in Colorado. Just moved away from Denver and am looking for someone to hang out/play with. Mostly looking for women at the moment but trying to not be picky at the same time.

>>49336 >tranny >looking for fems LMAO

>>49328 this is quite true. even if you get an amazing fulltime CG partner, I will tell you, that's still a person with their own habits and desires.