>>36057 I've made some more progress, I can pretty consistently pee while laying down without having to get up. I have also realised I can relax my muscles so that I just dribble in my diaper, though I can't keep myself relaxed all the time. Not sure if I already unconsiscously pee, since I always have to pee during the night anyways. I've snapped awake a few times when falling asleep as I've relaxed myself, waking up to my body clenching to prevent myself from dribbling.

>>36052 Interesting. What made you keep going, even though you were not sleeping too well for months? How sure were you that this was the right decision before you could no longer reverse it? To me bedwetting training seems scary, and inconvenient when out and about, but at the same time I feel attracted to the idea of waking up wet. The pull is stronger the more I engage with the idea, which makes me think it's dopamine that's driving it, meaning achieving it will not be truly satisfying. Any pointers in the what-if-regret department?

>>36469 More of a chime-in comment here, but I agree that the idea sounds great but the reality might quickly get tiring if you weren't prepared to be diapered every single night forever after (until you potty trained yourself again). The people who achieve bed wetting must love the lifestyle enough that they don't mind that it means (I would imagine) a bedwetting-future where you don't achieve as much dopamine from waking up wet as you do simply knowing you must rely on diapers overnight. Which is a hot idea in itself and would drive me to doing it too, if I didn't have practical realities ahead of me. I've only been able to achieve a state of "I am relying on diapers right now to not unexpectedly piss on the floor " after wearing all-day-and-night, all-weekend, and forcing myself to constantly over-hydrate. By noon of Sunday I'm basically free-peeing and almost unconscious of the act. But then it's back to work on Monday, so I have to stop. If my partner had been into it too, I'd have untrained myself for overnights long ago. Pretty jealous of those of us whose lives are actually like this!

>>36469 >>36481 A lot of it is that I was constantly waking up to use the p**** as it was. It was sabotaging my sleep constantly and I felt like ass. I actually sleep a lot better now that I'm bedwetting. Having to wear diapers isn't that much of a compromise at this point.

>>36469 I am a poor sleeper anyways and it's not uncommon for me to wake up during the night for a leak anyways, so my experiment hasn't really made my nights any worse. I've slept a few nights I've spent at a friend dry no problem, so I'm not past a point of no return yet. >>36481 I definitely agree, that's why I'm trying out how it would feel if I indeed was truely a bedwetter, with having to wake up and clean myself up after a night even during the week. Before I fully commit I think I should stay at someone else's place and go through the process of actually admitting I wear diapers to see if I am mentally prepared for that. Apart from one exception I'm pretty sure my relatives and friends would be understanding of my situation, and I'm not scared about travelling or other situations like that.

>>36564 Remember it's important to wake yourself up *before* your bladder wakes you up. Then you just pee and sleep.

>>36564 I'd say that, if you really want to know for sure, try traveling with other people, preferably by plane, "as a bedwetter". You have to plan ahead, probably inform the people you're with, bring an extra suitcase, have supplies delivered ahead of time to your destination or risk getting supplies there. That's the best stress test I can think of. I'm currently in a situation where it's as inconvenient as ever to wake up every night and get up to use the potty. I will likely wake up the dog. That means having to take the dog outside to pee as well, in the cold. To add to that, the potty is quite far from where I sleep, and the tiles aren't exactly warm either. That means the choice is really between not drinking anything before bedtime and being very thirsty in the morning, while still waking up or wearing a diaper.

I'm not going 24/7 but I'm trying to wear diapers as much as I can and it has been going very well. I have a question for you: Are you capable of wetting while walking? I already got used to wetting in all situations except two: walking and during my sleep. During my sleep, I'm making progress (still have to wake up a bit) but when walking it simply wont work. It's like the thing is locked or obstructed. I'm not incon and have an active lifestyle so all my progress is due conditioning. This thread is very long and I didn't read most of it, so excuse me if there already an answer. Have a random pic.

24/7 seems like it would be fun for a little but too intrusive for regular life. Having 24/7 months would be a fun experiment. I think I'd like to try it out though. My question is for those who are active what do you do while working out? I'm in good shape and the thought of working out in a diaper sounds absolutely miserable. The sweat and if you're already wet would be very tough.

>>36739 Working out while diapered IS miserable! Maybe some are capable of getting used to it but I'm not. I already sweat after 30 minutes walking in diapers, unless I'm outdoors and the weather is cold. That's why I don't consider myself 24/7, I have all these small exceptions but, otherwise, wear most of the time. I tried going 24/7 for a week and couldn't handle it, my active life makes it unbearable. Regardless, I do recommend people to give it a shot. A prerequisite for trying is either living alone or with someone that knows you wear diapers because going 24/7 and trying to hide it is almost impossible.

>>36743 Yeah I figured as much haha. I like to work out daily usually on a spin bike so diapers would just be the worst. Seems just not worth it if you're an active person. Still I'd give it a shot for a week when I have the chance. Curious though do you find your controlling your bladder harder when aren't wearing during these exceptions? Any accidents?

>>36736 Oddly, I didn't start wetting while walking until my bladder genuinely lost physical control, and then it started happening while walking all the time. I think it's an issue with body shape; I have big thighs that squeeze on it, and while the muscles had any tone it was helping. >>36739 >>36743 >>36747 I just work out in a room with low humidity and lots of airflow, and wear a thin pullup or underwear pad while doing it. I do have accidents while working out... a lot, actually, and I kinda had to learn to just push through and finish my workout before going to get changed. I live an active lifestyle and can't really imagine going without diapers for it, but sweat is a problem. I use medical-grade antiperspirant in the worst spots and it helps a ton, but most of it is just learning to stay cool.

>>36747 >Any accidents? I pee right before start training and anytime I feel a slightest tingle in my bladder, so I never had an accident. That said, sometimes after training my underwear ends up with a big wet spot. It's not something that go to my shorts, so I don't count it as an accident. >>36749 >until my bladder genuinely lost physical control My case is purely by conditioning, I don't have any physical trauma that would lead to true incontinence so that explains why I can't wet while walking. I'd have to lose all control for that to happen, I think. >I use medical-grade antiperspirant in the worst spots and it helps a ton Look how many hoops you've to go though just to work out. That's one of the reasons I don't want to either be 24/7 or fully incon. Not trying to say it's bad, it's just incompatible with my current lifestyle. Maybe in the future things will change enough for me to embrace 24/7. The groundwork is ready.

>>36749 >I just work out in a room with low humidity and lots of airflow, and wear a thin pullup or underwear pad while doing it. I do have accidents while working out... a lot, actually, and I kinda had to learn to just push through and finish my workout before going to get changed. I lift weights while diapered. I wear a tranquility slimline with smart core (it’s the breathable version of a slimline). I make sure to change after 90 minutes. Have never had a problem. As insurance in case I get a leak, I wear black gym shorts (which also don’t show my diaper lines as much). For a few months when I first went 24/7 I would only wear abriforms with booster pads to desensitize myself to having a diaper on. I worked out in them without much issue. I never do cardio lmao.

>>36739 I am very new to wearing 24/7 but in my situation I just wear a pull up most of the time and it lasts me until I'm done my 30 minutes a day. If I'm gonna do something else that takes longer I'd either wear a better pull up like a gosupreme or a tape-on cloth back diaper. >>36736 I was able to wet while walking before 24/7, but I have to push a bit to get things going unless my bladder's full. The tough ones for me are wetting while driving and while laying flat on my back. For some reason I can go if I elevate my upper half a bit but my body just refuses to go if I'm completely laying down.

>>36783 >I was able to wet while walking before 24/7, but I have to push a bit to get things going unless my bladder's full. The tough ones for me are wetting while driving and while laying flat on my back. For some reason I can go if I elevate my upper half a bit but my body just refuses to go if I'm completely laying down. If you can, get a reusable bedpad for your car seat so you don’t have to worry about leaking on it. And then make sure your bladder is relaxed before you sit down in the car. You’ll know you’re doing it right if you squirt some pee when you get up and step out of the car.

>>36784 Thanks Anon, I'll get a bed pad. Hopefully I can find one that doesn't look too out of place since i drive my friends around sometimes and haven't told them about the diapers yet. It's really nice to have this space to get advice from other people who've chosen diapers over the potty. Makes me feel less alone and helps reaffirm my decision that diapers are right for me : )

>>36796 Be careful with friends… I don’t really have them so I don’t have to worry about them.

>>36797 Yeah I guess I haven't really thought yet about what I'm gonna tell other people. Currently I really only have 1 friend irl that I'm really close with, the rest I'd probably just not tell anything unless it came up. It's hard to decide whether to tell people the truth or just say it's a medical issue and that it's personal. Probably not a good idea to open up about it except with kinky friends. No idea what I'd tell my parents either if they find out while I'm home for memorial day.

>>36810 Definitely say it is medical. I tell people I injured the nerves that control my bladder and bowels.

Anyone know what happened to Kali's tumblr? Noticed it was deleted. Something happen to them? I enjoyed reading their 24/7 banter and thoughts.

jeeeeeeesus I think I messed up, my appartment lease is ending in 2 weeks and I am moving out but caught up in the heat of the moment I ended up buying a case of diapers and now I have 36 nappies to go through and no fucking way to deal with that amount of dirty diapers as I wait for the weekly pick up garbage day. What are some good ways to deal with them for about a week? smell-wise and simply tidiness? I feel like I got myself into this mess but also I am happy to be able to wear almost non stop for a while.

>>37805 I have boxes that are like pic related and used one of them to store my diapers when I was living with someone before moving to my own place (was living in a rented apartment before). Told them they were clothes and no one opened it. To be extra safe I placed a layer of shirts above the diapers.

>>37805 Throw away the diapers late at night. I throw them out at 23-2ish I stay up late so it's not out of the question to why I am awake

>>37805 Just put them in a trashbag? Nobody's ever wondered.

>>37815 >>37835 garbage only gets picked up on Fridays, there cant be garbage bags on the street outside those days

>>37838 oh you guys have just trashbags outside interesting. man even without diapers the smell would be bad where are you guys storing the diapers during the days you aren't throwing them on the street? What about mixing the diapers with the regular trash?

>>37838 >>37805 Many apartment complexes have a large shared dumpster. It sounds like yours is a little different because of your trash bag situation, but I would check the full complex just to be sure there isn't one. Even if your apartment does not have one, oftentimes one apartment complex will be near another and you can dump there. If not, there are often large dumpsters behind restaurants, especially fast food. These usually say "no public dumping" but I have never had a problem. I also suggest like the other guy that you do not need to use all 36 in 2 weeks. You're already putting things into moving boxes, right? So box up 30 or so of them in a normal moving box, put a layer of clothes on top, and label the box something boring like "Old clothes", "Storage", or "Yearbooks". When I moved, I threw my spare diapers in my gym bag, a duffel with a tiny lock on the zipper. With all the other things to move, nobody spared it a second glance even though I had seven people helping me move boxes. Gym bags typically smell bad anyway and are filled with random shit like clothes and water bottles so it's not very suspicious.

>>36692 thanks

>>37865 NP King, sorry for formatting...

>>37845 yeah I am mixing them with regular trash but I am wetting heavily 1 diaper every night, so it starts becoming a massive, heavy bag that is definitely going to start to smell like ammonia... in fact... a few months ago, I had only two diapers in the trash and a friend of mine mentioned the ammonia smell... I definitely freaked out a bit... >>37858 Without going into much detail, my appartment complex does not work like that but I do appreciate the advise/help though. Going dumpster hunting in the back of a restaurant or hotel sounds scary, my city is not that big and I would be terrified to be identified or worst yet, caught by staff members and have to explain awkward stuff. I think its a good one to store diapers maybe in a thick bag, then inside a storage box and then may be put clothes or books or may be even inside a moving box.

>>36564 Had a small pause but now I'm back at it, and I've made some more progress. After one very tiresome night of training, I managed to wet while laying down without consciously trying to pee. It was quite amazing, the only signs of me wetting were the stream against my skin and a very subtle squeeze on my bladder as I started going. It took time and effort to get to a state where I was able to do this by pretty much meditating and listening to hypno and ambient water sounds, but I am excited to find I am indeed able to do it. I have also been able to repeat this in the following nights with less effort.

Just found out I have overflow incontinence and will need a catheter (potentially for the rest of my life.) Any other Anon have experience with them? How comfortable are they? Can you still get an erection and if you can does it hurt? Is there some type of lube to make it more comfortable? I'm a side/stomach sleeper, can I still do that without pain? I'm really new to the idea of catheters and any information helps. I'm actually pretty terrified at the idea and may just forego getting one all together and just managing it some other way.

>>37984 I've been succesfull in training myself to completely let go before I fully fall asleep in bed, but I still kept waking up to pee or woke up in the morning with an urge. I've started to do the night-time alarm trick, and I also drink a cup of water when the alarm goes off.

>>39125 Went to a cottage with a couple of my friends for a weekend, and I wore during the nights. We had separate rooms, so this was a good way to test if I really was ready to wear away from home. The cottage didn't have running water either, so I couldn't do the usual of taking a shower after waking up. Wearing didn't feel like a burden at all, quite the opposite. It felt reassuring to have diapers with me for the night and it was just fine to clean up in the morning with wet wipes, like a natural alternative morning routine I'd have to take in this case. I didn't mention it to my friends, but I have a feeling they're suspecting something. Next step would be to visit a friend and say out loud I need to wear for the night.